Showing posts with label professional belly dancer. Show all posts
Showing posts with label professional belly dancer. Show all posts

Wednesday, October 1, 2014

DAMN YOU AUTOCORRECT...BELLY DANCE STYLE





I adore my iPhone, even though I’m… ahem… of the age where I can recall all too clearly thinking that FAX machines were sheer magic. In fact,  when I got my phone, my teenage niece had to set my phone up for me, and I’m reasonably sure I’m only using it to a tiny fraction of it’s potential. There are many wonderful apps and tricks to be learned and used.

 We all know that spell check and autocorrect is of the best – and worst- features on smart phones.  There are the funny, odd word substitutions that autocorrect makes as a matter of course; for instance, a friend recently texted me asking if she could borrow my  “oink” veil… and I instinctively knew she meant my pink one!  And since I often use a lot of “colorful language” in my texts, my phone decides to substitute words like ducking instead of the he rhyming oath I’m attempting to type!


 But I think really there needs to be a special  Damn You Autocorrect site for belly dancers only.

  If my  own phone is any indication, many words that are “indigenous” to belly dancers – including common Arabic terms and casually used dancers slang- magically start appearing instead of the “every day” English words I’m trying to use.  

 I can’t be the only one with this problem, right?

 For instance, when I was texting to a neighbor about our parking situation, the word “garage” became Ghawazee.  She had absolutely no clue what I was writing about!

   If I  discuss grabbing a cab, “taxi” always  turns into taxim,  “have to” magically becomes hafla and when I attempt to write  “ I said”, the word Saidi appears.

When I tried typing “infinite” autocorrect decided I was really trying to say infidel;  “being” immediately becomes bling-bling and the word “because” routinely turns into beledi.  

  When texting about  a dish I was bringing to a  ( non belly dance) pot-luck party, “make some”  became maksoum;   the word  “easy”  it  always  becomes  Egypt ,  “purchase”  comes up as Persia and when I  give directions  to my house, “turn ”  morphs into Turkey.  The words "still" or "silly" become zills and  whenever I write the word "about", it turns into Abdou ... as in Fifi!

  Naturally, I’ve learned to live with these silly substitutions, but  they still make me- and most of the people I’m texting-laugh out loud.The one thing I cannot understand though, is that no matter how many times I write my stage name, for some reason, autocorrect never thinks it’s valid.

The general public might think  of me as Princess Farhana... but to my phone, I’ll always be Princess Farmhand!



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Sunday, August 12, 2012

GOING PRO PART THREE: LOOKING THE PART


This is Part Three in a series of articles I'm doing on becoming a professional dancer. Today's post deals with professional appearance, both on and off stage.

For years, people who want to enter the corporate world have been advised to dress for the job they want, not the job they have. The same concept applies to the performing arts. If you’re going after professional dance gigs, you need to look the part, so now's the time to get with the program!
Costuming, Make Up And Hair
You’ll definitely need to invest in a few professional costumes. Whether you buy your costumes or make them, they need to be showstoppers- and they have to fit you well and flatter your shape and coloring. You’re creating an illusion for the audience when you're on stage, so you can’t look “average”. That also means you can’t expect to work in glorified class wearing a haphazardly embellished bra with a hip scarf tied on over a street skirt, the way you might at a hafla!
A tried and true idea for rookies is to get in a good quality gold or silver bra and belt set ( decorated with fringe or coins, it doesn't matter) and make it appear versatile by changing up the look with different skirts, veils and accessories.
Additionally, you'll also have to shell out a couple of pro-level full costumes. You will need more than one costume, especially if you'll be working at a restaurant or a nightclub. Many places require costume changes for multiple sets a night, and if the place has a regular clientele, they expect different shows, too...as in different music and different costumes each time you dance.
If you can’t afford brand new stage wear, then “gently used” costumes will be your best friend. Typically, they’re in good condition and being sold because a dancer wants to rotate her stage wardrobe or they no longer fit, not because they are ruined. “Clothes make the man” and costumes make the dancer- at least, when she is on stage. Often, you’ll be working up-close and personal with your clients, so your costumes must fit well. If you don’t sew, have the alterations done by a seamstress.
True professionals are capable of doing their own faces. If you’re at a loss about stage make up, you need to get a clue- pronto. The natural look just won’t fly onstage, even if you’re working at an outdoor event. Your audiences expect a certain exotic image;it's imperative to look the part. There are numerous tutorials for beautiful make up on YouTube.com; watch them and follow along. Study photos of famous dancers and really examine the way they do their faces. Look at everything: ballet dancers, Vegas showgirls, Broadway dancers, and the Rockettes- even vintage movie star photos! Look for beautiful, expressive performer’s faces. On a large stage, “fresh faced” usually means foundation and powder, red lipstick, pink cheeks, penciled brows and false eyelashes. At a smaller venue, you won’t need quite as much.
Your hair is an important part of your professional appearance, too. Some of us are blessed with great hair...others, well, not so much. Even if you happen to have a gorgeous head of hair, it may not look that way after sweating through multiple shows, so this is where wigs and hairpieces come in. Here's a link to an article I wrote in 2011 about faux hair for dancing:

Image And Appearance Offstage
Remember that you are the product you’re selling, so think about the packaging! Even when you aren’t onstage, when you’re at gigs, in class or at a belly dance event, you must look flawless. It’s the image your students, clients and fans expect of you- don’t destroy the illusion!
The general public wants to experience a diva, not some average woman who just happens to dance. Think of your dance jobs as an acting exercise and maintain your “role” as a belly dancer.
Arrive at your gigs with your hair and make up done, wearing something pretty. It doesn’t have to be elaborate or expensive. Something you’d wear on a casual date, like a little dress or a nice top with jeans or leggings is fine.
Wear a cover up between shows, so you don’t ruin the impact of your costume. Sorry to say, but a veil or a coat you’d wear on the street might be fine for a studio party, but it just won’t cut the mustard for a professional gig. There are plenty of beautiful, washable, inexpensive caftans on eBay…and one of them has your name on it!
Dress nicely for class, especially if you’re teaching. You don’t need anything too fancy to wear; there are tons of cute and affordable workout clothes, so there are many options. You probably already have an extensive class wear wardrobe. A light touch of make up won't hurt, either. Remember once again that you are now marketing yourself as a professional; and that you are not only interacting with the general public, but you’re also a role model for your students, a few of whom will turn professional at some point, so set a good example.
Making an effort look good when you go to dance festivals and workshop weekends is now a requirement too, even if you’ll be sweating away in the classes. You never know who you’ll run into at one of these events; you might come away with a gig or an invitation to teach somewhere… and of course everyone always takes pictures!
Your physical appearance needs to be maintained if you’re interested in professional work. Good grooming is essential; you now have an image to uphold- and at many gigs you’ll be in very close proximity to your audience. This means that no matter what your personal aesthetic is, you’ll need to conform to mainstream beauty standards, so shave, polish, spray, exfoliate, deodorize and coif yourself carefully with this in mind.

When I first started dancing over twenty years ago, I was a punk rock chick...but I knew without being told that my fried, Krazy-Kolored Calico-striped hair wasn't gonna fly at the Arab clubs that I wanted to hire me...so I grew my hair out and dyed it back to it's original color. I also knew that (back in those days) tattoos and piercings were absolutely taboo for dancers. So, in order to work, I had to keep all of my body art covered in order to get hired! I made sleeves that matched all my costumes, and hid my tattoos. But I didn't consider this a sacrifice, I considered it a career move. I took the phrase "When In Rome..." to heart, and no one was the wiser! Nowadays, I still often get questions about whether or not it's acceptable for dancers to have tats or multiple piercings. Those looks are all popular and accepted by society pretty much everywhere so don’t worry if you have colored hair, piercings or tattoos... because now, pretty much, everyone does. However...
The next thing I'm about to say may be somewhat of a hot button issue-but it's the truth.
While it’s a fact that our dance looks beautiful on women on every age, shape and size, this is not the case with most professional gigs. You don’t have to be a sylph, a few extra pounds are fine, because everyone likes a feminine, curvaceous dancer... but you will need to maintain a “professional” weight in order to be hired. I've also known dancers who were underweight that lost out on jobs. If you are a more mature dancer, know that you may get passed over in favor of a younger performer.
I hear dancers complaining all the time about all of this: "Why did she get hired? She can't even dance, she just looks pretty!"
Well, one of the reasons "she" got hired is cause "she" had the right look.
We dancers judge each other on talent and technique, not appearances. But the general public doesn't see the same things we do- and neither do many show producers, restaurant and night club managers or casting directors.
When you're competing for jobs, looks count almost as much as technique. Remember that song from the old Broadway musical A Chorus Line? "Dance 10, Looks 3/ and I'm still on unemployment/ Dancing for my own enjoyment"...sadly, those lyrics are still true today!
Though all this may seem outright wrong in this day and age of body acceptance and diversity, this is a fact of life in the realm of professional dance. Remember, you are now entering a competetive world- nobody ever said it was going to be fair. Again, it’s our societal standard of beauty at play. What constitutes “acceptable” physical appearance for dance entertainment is subjective... and it’s always up to the people who hire you!
In my first post on becoming a professional dancer, I wrote that you will need to develop a tough skin because there will be a lot of rejection...no matter who you are, no matter what you look like. This comes with the territory. Be realistic about getting rejected for a job because it happens to everyone. Take it with a grain of salt. Dream as big as possible, keep your goals in mind and work as hard as you can. Looks aren't everything, but they do count.
The bottom line is that if you take great care of yourself and look as good as you can both on and off stage, you’re much more likely to get hired!


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Tuesday, December 1, 2009

THINGS YOU NEED TO KNOW BEFORE BOOKING A SHOW



The Holidays are here, and even with the economy the way it is, that means people are celebrating…which, for professional dancers, translates to employment opportunities. Even if you have never worked before, you may already be getting offers for holiday parties and gigs. If you are on the threshold of becoming a working professional dancer, then without a doubt, you’ve been sweating in group and private classes, practicing your butt off at home, dancing with a student troupe and in belly dance show cases, honing your technique and stage presence… and you just bought a fabulous new costume. Well, congratulations, girl, sounds like you’re about ready to go pro- all you need is a gig! Now might be the time for you to start working.

Exactly what do professional dancers know that you don’t? Well, for one thing, they know how to book shows. Whether you’re donating your dancing to a charity event, performing at a private party or auditioning for a restaurant or club job, there’s “technique” involved before you hit the stage as well. The following information will help you book a gig like a seasoned pro… help you to determine the WHO, WHAT,WHERE, WHEN and HOW of your gig.

First off: WHAT TYPE OF EVENT IS IT ? Private party, wedding, birthday, corporate show, Arabic club, holiday festival…etc. Make sure to find out exactly what your gig will be, so you can costume yourself appropriately and plan a set of songs that will reflect the mood.

WHO IS HIRING YOU? Club owner, bride or groom, caterer, event planner…

WHERE? (How far from your house, as well as whether the event is being held at a residence, restaurant, banquet hall, outdoor festival, etc.) *ALSO: Is there a full theatrical stage, raised stage, dance floor, living room, patio or……..???? FIND OUT ABOUT YOUR DANCE AREA!

WHEN? Get specific performance times, and let them know that you are flexible, but cannot stay at the event for hours at their discretion

SOUND SYSTEM : Do you have to bring a boom box ( like for a belly gram situation) or will there be a sound system w/ a deejay? Will you be using a CD or an iPod? Will there be other performers? Do they expect you to dance to a live band? If so- can you rehearse or do a tech check?

NEGOTIATE PAY :Depending on where, when and how long you will be dancing, state your rate, and negotiate your salary. It will behoove you to find out everything possible about the gig before stating a price- keep your price in mind, or even have it written on a piece of paper that you can refer to when on the phone with a prospective client.

DO NOT undercut the “going rate”. If you are not sure what the going rate is in your area, ask another local working dancer, or dance instructor. Start your price a little high, many people expect bit of bargaining. Figure out if it is a tipping situation or not, this will affect the base pay you ask for… and also ask the host or person who hired you if they would like you to stay within your performance area, or if it is fine to dance among the seated guests. Some people consider this acceptable, others think it’s ‘tacky”. DO NOT ask the person hiring you how much they wanted to spend on a dancer until you have stated your price. Everybody wants a “deal”, and will give you a lower figure. Know that it is fairly standard to charge not just for the party or gig, but the length of time it takes to GET you there- think twice about accepting a gig that is far from your home base, unless you know it will be worth your time. And know that pretty much anywhere in the world, the “going rate” for New Years is triple whatever you would regularly charge.

GET DIRECTIONS! If you can’t get directions from the host, call the venue. If you can’t get in touch with the venue, look up the address and driving directions on the internet.

GET CONTACT NUMBERS! Try to get both a cell-phone number as well as the number of the venue itself.

RE-CONFIRM YOUR PERFORMANCE (a week before the show, as well as the day before)

GET A CONTRACT AND DEPOSIT These days, PayPal makes this part so much easier. Set up a PayPal account if you don’t have one already.

DO NOT FEEL “WEIRD” BRINGING ALONG A FRIEND- PREFERABLY MALE : Any “decent” people in this day and age will perfectly understand the concept of personal safety. Tell them it is your ‘driver’. However, it is totally inappropriate for you to be hanging all over your ‘driver’ smooching! Be professional.

IF YOU FEEL UNSAFE AT ANY TIME, REMOVE YOURSELF FROM THE SITUATION IMMEDIATELY.

SHOW UP ON TIME, READY TO GO (come fully made up and if it’s a private gig with no dressing room fully costumed with a cover-up)

FIND A SECURE PLACE TO KEEP YOUR BELONGINGS- this could be anything from a locked dressing room or office, to a cubby-hole behind the bar or a concierge desk at a hotel or banquet hall. Even if you have to change in the Ladies Room ( and this is a common “dressing room” , believe me) ...or have your "driver" watch them while you perform. DO NOT leave your things there unattended!

LEAVE IMMEDIATELY AFTER YOU PERFORM AND GET PAID (No hanging around, you are an entertainer, not a guest)

BE GRACIOUS, CHEERFUL AND POLITE, but firmly refuse anything you do not want to do…like perform a second time for free!

HAVE FUN AND YOUR AUDIENCE WILL, TOO!

Food for thought: If you act like a professional dancer, you will be treated like one!